Part of the debate – in the Senedd at 5:58 pm on 22 November 2016.
The Cabinet Secretary has revealed some truly shocking statistics in his statement. It’s shameful that so many women and girls are subjected to domestic violence in this day and age. Although there’s a growing trend where women are the perpetrators of violence against men and domestic violence also occurs in same-sex relationships, domestic violence is still a crime mainly committed by men upon women.
The physical, psychological and emotional impact of domestic and sexual violence on victims cannot be overestimated. All victims of domestic violence will need support. The Cabinet Secretary’s efforts to develop a survivor engagement framework are welcome, as is his pledge to work to make funding more sustainable. I agree with the Cabinet Secretary that to prevent violence against women in the future, the focus must be on children and their understanding of healthy relationships.
But, the role of adult men in ending violence against women should not be underestimated. Men can play a crucial role in ending gender-based violence. It is essential that young boys have positive role models in their families, on tv, in schools and elsewhere—men who will teach them that no real man hits or abuses a woman. If boys do not have those role models in their families, the state must provide them. Male teachers and other men in public life, for example popstars or sportsmen, all have an important role to play in ending violence against women. They can influence and educate boys to understand what a healthy relationship is.
However, we must ensure that we don’t resort to inflicting a sense of guilt or treat men as if they’re inherently problematic. Instead, we need to encourage men to become involved and help them to understand that they can play a crucial part in securing a happier and safer culture for future generations of women and men. If we work together, we can consign violence against women and girls to history. I therefore call upon men and women across Wales to make every day White Ribbon Day. Thank you.